Motherhood Portraits: Why Moms Need to Be in the Picture Too

April 14, 2025

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Allison Krogness Photography | Fort Worth Newborn & Family Photographer


Table of Contents:

  1. Introduction — It’s Time for Moms to Get in the Picture
  2. Why Moms Are So Often Missing from Photos
  3. The Power of Presence Over Perfection
  4. What Your Kids Will See When They Look Back
  5. What Makes Motherhood Portraits Timeless
  6. Fort Worth Motherhood Garden Portraits — A Session Designed for You
  7. Frequently Asked Questions About Motherhood Sessions
  8. Tips for Feeling Comfortable In Front of the Camera
  9. Final Thoughts — You Deserve to Be Remembered Too

1. Motherhood Portraits-Get in the Pictures

Let’s be honest: moms are the ones behind the camera most of the time. We’re snapping iPhone pictures of our kids twirling in the backyard, documenting their chubby little hands helping in the kitchen, and preserving their silly little toddler expressions.

But how often are we in the photos?

As a Fort Worth newborn and family photographer, I hear this all the time:

“I’ll get in the next one.”
“I just don’t feel photo-ready.”
“Let’s just focus on the kids.”

And I get it. We all have insecurities. We’re busy. We don’t always feel like we’re showing up as our best selves.

But here’s what I know for sure: your kids don’t care what you look like in a photo. They care that you’re in it.

Because to them, you’re beautiful. You’re the one who kisses scraped knees, reads bedtime stories, and knows exactly how they like their pancakes. Motherhood portraits are so valuable in documenting your family’s story and history.


2. Why Moms Are So Often Missing from Photos

Additionally, we fall into this pattern of self-editing before the shutter even clicks. Maybe it’s about the baby weight we haven’t lost yet, or the fact that we forgot to put on mascara, or the mental to-do list running through our head that makes us feel like we’re not “camera-ready.”

We tell ourselves:

  • “Once I lose 10 pounds…”
  • “I need to get my hair colored first…”
  • “Maybe next year…”

But here’s the truth: next year, your baby will be walking. Your toddler might be too big to carry on your hip. Life moves quickly. And if we keep waiting for “perfect,” we’re going to miss documenting the most real, fleeting, beautiful moments of our motherhood story.

As you know, so many of the Fort Worth moms I work with are incredibly thoughtful and intentional about documenting their children’s milestones — first birthdays, yearly family photos, baby’s first days — but hesitate to include themselves in the frame.

Let’s shift the narrative.
What if we told ourselves that showing up — just as we are — is enough, motherhood portraits are about being present, not perfect.


3. The Power of Presence Over Perfection

Next, let’s reframe what being “photo-worthy” really means. It’s not about having flawless makeup or a perfect outfit, but being present.

It’s about showing up for your babies, not just in real life, but in the photos they’ll someday treasure.

Because when they flip through family albums or scroll through digital frames, they won’t see your insecurities. They’ll see the way you held them close. The way you laughed when they tickled your cheek. The calm on your face when they ran into your arms.

Most importantly, photos don’t need to be perfect to be powerful.

The beauty is in the connection. In the authenticity. In the love that radiates from even the simplest frame.


4. What Your Kids Will See When They Look Back

As a mom myself, I’ve had this realization hit me hard: my daughters won’t remember if I wore the “right” dress or had my makeup just right in a photo. They’ll remember the warmth of my hug. The way I looked at them like they were my whole world (because they are).

When your children look back at family photos years from now, they’ll see:

  • You showing up for them, again and again
  • How deeply they were loved
  • The joy and comfort that surrounded their childhood

That’s what makes these photos priceless. They tell the story of a mother who loved fiercely, fully, and without hesitation — even if she didn’t always feel perfect.


5. What Makes Motherhood Portraits Timeless

In a world of fast-paced trends and over-filtered moments, motherhood portraits stand out because they’re rooted in something deeper. Something lasting.

The Motherhood Garden Portraits I offer each spring are designed to reflect that quiet elegance. They’re soft, heartfelt, and timeless — not because of any trend, but because they capture what matters most: your bond with your children.

Set in the stunning Fort Worth Botanic Garden, these motherhood photography sessions offer a touch of classic beauty — but the real magic happens in the moments. The nose kisses. The giggles. The way your little one grabs your hand without thinking twice.

These aren’t just “nice pictures.” They’re heirlooms in the making.


6. Fort Worth Motherhood Garden Portraits — A Session Designed for You

This spring, I’m offering a limited number of Motherhood Garden Portraits right here in Fort Worth.

These sessions are for:

  • Moms with babies, toddlers, or young children that value documenting their season of motherhood.

Session Details:

  • 📍 Location: Fort Worth Botanic Garden
  • 🌸 Style: Elegant but natural — with soft colors, lush greens, and spring blooms
  • 👗 Wardrobe: I’m happy to help with wardrobe guidance — think flowy dresses, neutral tones, and anything that makes you feel confident
  • 📷 Vibe: Relaxed, connection-focused, and emotionally rich
  • ⏳ Duration: Petite sessions with just enough time to capture everything you need, without overwhelming your little ones

If you’re familiar with spots like Hale House, Tuckernuck, or Babies on the Boulevard, you already know the kind of classic style these sessions were created for.

This is your chance to create something beautiful — not just for today, but for years down the road.


7. Frequently Asked Questions About Motherhood Portrait Sessions

What if my kids don’t cooperate?
That’s totally okay! I expect wiggles, giggles, and chaos — that’s part of the magic. I guide your session in a way that embraces movement and emotion.

Do I have to wear a dress?
Not at all. I want you to feel like you. While soft, flowing pieces photograph beautifully in the gardens, we can create timeless images in anything that feels comfortable and reflects your style.

What if I feel awkward?
Most moms do! That’s where I come in — I’ll gently guide you through natural prompts that help you focus on your connection, not the camera.

Can I bring multiple children?
Absolutely. Whether it’s your first baby or you’re juggling three little ones, these portraits are for your whole crew.


8. Tips for Feeling Comfortable In Front of the Camera

If the idea of stepping in front of the lens makes you nervous, you’re not alone. Here are a few ways to ease into it:

  • Focus on your child, not the camera. Let your attention rest on your little one. The result? Natural, emotionally rich images.
  • Choose an outfit that makes you feel good. You don’t have to go out and buy something new — but if you want help choosing something flattering and timeless, I’m here to help.
  • Give yourself grace. This isn’t about capturing perfection. It’s about capturing love, warmth, and connection.
  • Trust your photographer. (That’s me!) I’ll help you feel at ease, keep the session moving, and make sure you leave with images that feel true to your story.

9. Final Thoughts — You Deserve to Be Remembered Too

Finally, motherhood has a way of rushing by.

There are seasons where the days feel long, but somehow the years are so short. One moment you’re swaddling a newborn, and the next, you’re holding hands with a little kid who’s already halfway to growing up.

It’s easy to stay behind the scenes — to stay behind the camera — always giving and doing and loving in ways that go unseen.

All things consider, you deserve to be in the frame.

Your children deserve to see the way you looked at them.
You deserve to remember the way it felt to hold them close.
This season deserves to be preserved — not just in your heart, but in photographs that last.

Let’s create those photos together.

Because one day, they’ll be more than just images — they’ll be your legacy.


Ready to book your Motherhood Garden Portrait?
Spots are limited — make sure you’re on the list to get early access!

📸 Contact Allison Krogness Photography to inquire
📍 Serving Fort Worth, TX and surrounding areas

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hey there, I'm Allison

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I use my blog to share about  my photography sessions, prepare my clients for their photography sessions, and share helpful resources for new parents.

newborns

family

milestone

helpful hints